Sunday, July 29, 2012

Canada, eh?

We found out we would be moving to Toronto for our fellowship last August.  I say "our" fellowship because even though I am the one doing the clinical fellowship at Toronto General Hospital and Princess Margaret Cancer Centre in head and neck oncology, I feel like the rest of the family is getting one last exposure on how to live under non-ideal circumstances.

Post-graduate medical education is truly the ultimate in delayed gratification.  I had some great job opportunities before I decided to take a fellowship, all of which payed very well starting out.  I now know I am a true glutton for punishment because I decided to take a job making the same thing I made last year in a foreign country that is a good deal more expensive than the U.S.  For example, a gallon of gas costs almost $6, and a 6-pack of Coors light long-necks costs around $12.  We knew Canada would be more expensive than the United States, especially in terms of child care, and as a result, we made several decisions to start saving money in preparation for our move.  We didn't go on some exotic vacation to celebrate the end of residency, but perhaps the decision I regret the most now, hindsight being 20/20, is that we did not travel to Toronto at all prior to moving up here to do any house-hunting.  We thought we would save the money we would have spent on flights, hotels, etc.  However, we spent a great deal of time looking for places to live on the internet.  Finally, one night after work I was looking on Craigs list and found what looked like a nice clean house in the part of Toronto called Greek Town.  We talked to the property manager, did a fly-by on Google Maps, talked to people who had lived in Toronto; basically everything we could do short of seeing the house in person.  We decided to pull the trigger and went for it.

The first time we pulled up to the house, needless to say, we were shocked.  Bad idea not to see the house in person.  The yard was a jungle with overgrown, dead brush, trash, debris and God-knows what else.  It looked like someone had trimmed some tree branches in the not-too distant past and then thrown them on top of the "pile" to decompose.  I remember seeing a digital thermostat on the wall and Katherine saying let me turn the AC on because after all, there has been a ridiculous heat wave in Toronto this summer.  After about an hour, all the while working to throw out the junk the prior tenant had left in the house, I turned to Katherine and asked her if the AC was working because I certainly wasn't feeling any cooler.  We looked around and noticed there was not a single air vent on the ceiling or in the floor, and suddenly the light bulb went off that we had no AC!

There are many other smaller issues like no dishwasher and disposal in the kitchen, for which I've already promised Katherine a La Cornue stove in our next house, a refrigerator that spontaneously went into defrost mode (we now have a new one as of last Thursday), a basement that likes to take on water after a rain storm, walls painted colors that could be better chosen by a blind person, and a bathroom so small, I have to pee facing sideways.

Needless to say, we have been through some adversity in life so after the shock value of what we were facing wore off, we got to work.  Katherine scrubbed the house from top to bottom as only she can.  I woke up early one Saturday morning, rented a U-haul trailer, and tackled the yard.  The AC was probably the biggest issue with sweet 6 month old Mack liking it cold.  I went to Home Depot, bought very nice LG window units, and drawing on my white-trash instincts, duct taped them into the windows in the kitchen, our bedroom, and the kids' bedroom.  Oh, and we now have a side-gate that is actually quite sturdy to safely let the dogs out into the back yard.  So with a little elbow grease and some ingenuity, our Greek house has become perfectly adequate.  This experience has helped me to appreciate how fortunate we have been to live in the houses and cities that we have lived in thus far in life.  Living in this house will just make the house we move in to next year that much sweeter.  We are already planning house-hunting trips.

Before:



After:

Ahhh... AC!!

Sunday, April 15, 2012

My Sweet Baby Girl...

I have been told by friends who were second and third-born children how important it is take just as many pictures of Mackenzie as we did of Campbell. Luckily Brad had just bought a new camera lens for Christmas; we were ready to take lots of pictures of Mackenzie. The challenge I have realized... who takes the pictures? With Brad chasing our busy toddler and me taking care of Mackenzie, taking tons of pictures to document every moment is not so easy. But here are some of my favorites from our first week with Mackenzie.

Love all that curly brown hair!




Time to go home!




What's so funny Mackenzie?!

Mackenzie Arrives!

I never would have guessed that Mackenzie would be arriving 3 days after my last blog post. We had planned everything perfectly! My doctor recommended a planned c-section one week prior to my due date. However, that was the weekend of the MLK holiday and our friends who had generously volunteered to watch Campbell for a night were going to be in CA. So I suggested we schedule the c-section for January 17th. It was perfect. Campbell would spend the night at our friends house on Jan 16th; Brad and I would have our first night to ourselves since Campbell's arrival, and then we would get up super early on the 17th and check-in to the hospital for Mackenzie's arrival.

Ms. Mack had other plans. Friday night, Jan 13th, I worked till after 10 PM to get everything done before going out on maternity leave. I finally got into bed around midnight and realized I was having contractions. I convinced myself they were braxton-hicks (the "fake" warm-up contractions). I got out of bed to sit on the couch and drink gallons of water to try to stop it. Finally at about 3 AM I woke Brad up to give him an update - I was having contractions and all the water in the world was not stopping it. We paged my doctor. He agreed I needed to go to the hospital. Great... what was our plan now. Who was going to watch Campbell at 3 AM?!?! I hopped in the shower to shave my legs (because who knew when I would get another chance to do that); I threw some clothes in a bag (because I was totally not ready yet and hadn't carefully packed a hospital bag like I did with Campbell); and I jumped in the car to drive MYSELF to the hospital. Brad stayed home with Campbell!

I waddled my way to L&D around 4 AM and got checked into the hospital - yep I was having contractions about every 5-10 minutes. We had a few options, take meds to try to stop the contractions and go with planned section on the 17th or move forward with delivery that morning. As a precaution I was given the meds any way, but Brad said let's go for it. Mackenzie would be arriving today. Next step, find someone to watch Campbell. As grandparents scrambled to change their flights (everyone had planned for the 17th!), a fellow resident was willing to come to our house at 8 AM and spend the day with Campbell. I was scheduled for a 9:00 AM section which luckily got pushed back to 9:30 AM. Brad made it to the hospital at 9, and Mackenzie was born at 9:44 AM - exactly one week before my due date, as my doctor had originally suggested! I guess she listened better than me. Welcome to the world Mackenzie!!!




Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Family Photos

For months, I wanted to take family photos of the three of us before the arrival of #2. I also thought it would be fun to have some bump pictures. But between all our schedules, it was not easy to settle on a date/time. So our family photo session was combined with the bump session, and we finally got our family photos taken with me at 38 weeks pregnant!

Our photographer was awesome - thanks Amber for the recommendation!! Rather than feeling like a photo session, it was more like playing at City Park for an hour with Campbell. We had a blast. Campbell hadn't been to City Park in months, and he ran all over the park and museum grounds checking everything out. Here are some of my favorite pictures.








Wednesday, January 4, 2012

It's all about Hygiene!


One thing we've learned about Campbell is that despite being an insanely messy eater, he is a very clean little man. He loves taking baths, brushing his hair, and he especially likes brushing his teeth. We only have to ask him once if he wants to brush his teeth, and he immediately responds by saying "teet" and B-lines it for the bathroom. He thoroughly brushes all of his 11 teeth for about a minute and hands the tooth brush back when he's done. We hope his good hygiene habits keep up, but we're not holding our breath.

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Swimming!

For months I've wanted to take "mom and baby" swim lessons but I didn't know where. Our friend told us about Love Swimming, and we immediately signed up. Campbell and I have been taking lessons since the end of September, and we love it. Campbell's favorite part is jumping in (more like wiggling and plopping in) from the side of the pool. My favorite part is the heated, salt water pool that feels awesome at 7 months pregnant. Least favorite part... putting on a maternity swimsuit every Saturday!

Big breath! Close those eyes and mouth!

Kick Campbell kick!

YEA! Way to go C Man!


Dallas Visit

First weekend in October we went to Dallas to see family and attend our first football game with Campbell. With baby #2 arriving in January, we won't be traveling to Dallas for Christmas this year, so our October trip was like our trip to Dallas for "the holidays." We had lots of fun seeing everyone and as always wish we could have spent more time visiting with everyone.

Campbell just learned his first word that week before our trip - "duck." So we tried to see as many ducks as we could. We visited Lakeside park and fed the ducks. We saw the ducks at Northpark. And my favorite duck sighting... as we walked into the fair grounds for the TX/OU game, Campbell saw giant "duck" shaped boats on the lagoon and exclaimed duck...duck...duck over and over again. He also started saying snack and learned uh-oh while we were in Dallas. Brad and I were endlessly amused at asking funny questions and waiting for Campbell to reply with "uh-oh." Needless to say we are having so much fun with our toddler and are amazed every day with all that he learns.

Whoa! Close to the ducks!


Campbell trying to get closer to the action at Northpark!


Ready for my first football game!


Checking out the petting zoo at the Texas State Fair! Of course we saw ducks. And a Longhorn!


If only Texas had been so tough. Our seats were right behind the cannon, so we spent the first half hanging out in the concessions area. [Dad said no to sitting by the cannon with Campbell's little ears!] Then it was nap time...


Busy morning at the fair = exhausted Campbell!

Super cool necklace Aunt Jessica.

Cool fountain Paw-Paw. I wonder if any ducks are in there.